Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Sad. . .

How do you tell your little ones that mom and dad aren’t going to live together anymore? I was younger than he is now, about his sister’s age, so I don’t remember what my mom told me. Luckily, their mom was. Maybe she recalls the conversation and knows exactly what to say. Perhaps she comforts herself with the knowledge that we turned out okay, so they will do the same. I can only hope that she knows what she is doing, and that those children have the constitution to fight through this, and understand, without hatred, frustration and regret, that sometimes, life is just destined to repeat itself.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

As an outsider, I can only comment as to the irony (isn't that just another word the cynic uses for heartbreakingly sad?) that this post followed your last one...

quin browne said...

always remember to not involve them in any fashion.

ever.

be selfish in this, never let them feel in any way they are responsible... for they will feel this. never muddy money and keeping the relationships with parents. never use them as a pawn. never allow anyone to disparage the other parent in the child's hearing. never forget you conceived this child in blazing love.

trust me on this.

this is one thing to carry forth of your love, your beloved, your amazing belief all would be forever.

don't forget that.

paisley said...

i'm sorry,,, either iam a syc fuk or this stuff is freaking collectible!!!!

i cant figure out if i am the only one that gets it... or i'm nuts... but i don't think the other commenter's have a clue......